Three lines. The truth about this role, in one sentence. One thing they can act on, if there is one. And what happens next, with you, honestly. "The client needs a current card and yours expired in May. If you renew it, I have two orders next month where you'd fit. I'll keep your number and call you then." Kind is not the same as hopeful. Candidates can handle no. They cannot handle a maybe that was never real.
Why it is hard
Some candidates need a job this week. Rent, kids, a car payment. They call back three times. They say they will do anything. You have nothing for them, or the one thing you have needs a credential they do not hold. Every instinct says soften it, say "I'll see what I can do," and move on.
That instinct is the problem. "I'll see what I can do" is a promise the candidate hears as hope. When nothing comes, the hope turns into another ghosting.
The three lines
1. The truth about this role. "This order needs a current forklift card, and yours expired in May." Specific, short, not about them as a person.
2. One thing they can act on. "If you renew it, you'd fit two orders I have coming next month." Or, if there is nothing: "Right now I don't have anything that matches, and I don't want to tell you otherwise."
3. What happens next, honestly. "I'll keep your number and call you when one of those opens." Or: "I won't have something soon. The county workforce center on Main runs a free forklift course; that's the fastest route I know."
Say it once, clearly. Then stop. Do not fill the silence with maybes.
What not to say
- "I'll see what I can do." Unless you will.
- "Something will come up." You do not know that.
- "You're a great candidate." If it is not relevant to why they are not getting this role, it sounds like a brush-off.
- Nothing at all. Silence is the cruelest version.
Protect yourself too
New recruiters burn out on this. A few rules help. Give the three lines, kindly, and let the call end. Do not take the fifth call about the same order. Point people to real resources when you have none. And keep a list of the ones you said "next month" to, so that when next month comes, you call. That is the part that makes the honesty worth something.
Where M-Tracker fits
The candidate update has a standard: the truth, the next step, and when they will hear. M-Tracker checks each update against that standard before it goes out and tells the recruiter, in plain words, when the "what happens next" line is missing. The three lines get sent, and the promise to call back has a date on it.
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Questions people ask
What if they cry?
Let them. Stay on the line, stay kind, repeat the one thing they can act on. You are not responsible for fixing their week. You are responsible for being straight with them.
Can I give them a role they are not quite right for?
Only if the client would say yes knowing the gap. Sending someone into a placement that will fail in week one is not kindness.
How do I stop feeling terrible?
Count the ones you called back. Honest nos, followed by a real yes later, are the part of this job that lasts.
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